Tuesday 11 September 2012

Sex after nursing session

With all the stresses of maintaining a regular schedule, we've decided to go casual about our nursing times and do it when we can, for however long we can - and it's been the best decision ever. It feels like those first few day and months of a new relationship, where you sneak bits of time to be together, and each second stolen is full of thrills. And so when we managed to steal a bit of time before bed for a bit of cuddling and suckling, we were both ready for a lot more!

Breastfeeding my husband has changed us so much - it's made us calmer, happier people - but it's also changed our relationship, making us closer, more intimate and more in tune with each other's needs. Last night was one of those nights where it all came together - we snuck into bed, with the blanket warmer on, cuddling and squirming around to get comfortable. My husband got into his place, just a head lower than where I am, to indicate he wanted to nurse; so I propped myself up on a couple of pillows and gave him my left breast. He hungrily took it into his mouth and suckled. It's such a calming time, when he gets into a rhythm, and I close my eyes and feel him slightly tugging at my nipple, his hands clasped around my breast. After some time, I reached over and gave him the other breast, which means that I have to lie on my back and he'll feed from the side. After feeding on my right breast for some time, he reached down and started to caress me and was delighted to find I was so ready for him. I am not sure what it is about nursing my husband that makes me so ready for sex afterwards - but I suspect it's a combination of being completely relaxed and at peace, having your nipples aroused and suckled for a long time, and of course, knowing the pleasure your husband is getting from your body. Most times, a breastfeeding session doesn't end in sex especially if you've got limited time in the mornings or are having a middle of the night session and we both just fall asleep. But when it does, it is truly explosive.

6 comments:

  1. I really enjoy reading your posts. Thank you for sharing your life with me.
    We have tue greatest sex after nursing. It's very intense. I love being so close with my husband.

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  2. I love reading your posts..This is all new to me and i am currently trying to get my milk yo come in. i currently have a long distance relationship with my best friend turned recent lover in the past year. we fly back and forth every few months we speak everyday. We decided to do this as he loves milky breasts and i have a desire to have him feed from me. i pump every couple of hours when I'm home but do you have any suggestions about herbs to help with my milk coming in and also i am a registered nurse in the states and work 12 hours shifts 3 days a week. i can't wait to have what you have it sounds beautiful. much love

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  3. Hello - thanks to both of you for your kind comments. Its wonderful finding friends around the world who share this passion for ANR.

    @Newtoanr - I'd love to hear more about how you two are progressing so please do post comments often.

    @flrn - I'd love to know more about what you are using to pump and how that is working for you and how it feels. I'll write up a quick post on what I think of herbs to share.

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    1. I've just started trying to bring in breastmilk I so hope it happens and works so excited about feeding my boyfriend

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    2. I've just started trying to bring in breastmilk I so hope it happens and works so excited about feeding my boyfriend

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