Wednesday 6 June 2012

Incredible Closeness

We are reaching the end of week one of our dedicated nursing routine. We haven't managed to get as much nursing time as we had hoped, but I regularly nurse him each morning and each evening before bedtime. We're managing about fifteen minutes on each breast in the morning, and a bit more at bedtime. Occasionally we've managed a 2am nursing, but haven't quite woken up each time! The feelings are so very difficult to explain in simple words. Its brought us so much closer emotionally and physically. For me, it is a complete feeling of submission and love and tenderness. When I hold my breast up so my nipples reaches his lips, I know I am surrendering myself to both tenderness and pain, but most of all, I know I am providing pleasure. At night, it has become the ritual that gives us time to unwind and relax and provides complete "us" time. By the time bedtime nears, I feel my breasts becoming sore with their need to be suckled and I find myself hurrying to get into bed. Our nursing relationship has uncovered so many unknown benefits. Its made me feel sexier and more proud to have nice heavy big breasts that seem perfect to carry milk. Its also made me feel more secure in my role as wife, and given me new ways to bring pleasure to my husband. But apart from the sexual benefits, having my breasts suckled relaxes me, and gives me the best nights sleep I've had in ages. Often I find myself dozing off while he still suckles, drifting in and out of sleep while he alternates from one breast to the other. My breasts feel full and soft but we don't have any milk coming yet, but I suspect we need to increase the frequency of nursing as its supposed to mirror the frequency of nursing a child, which would be 4-5 times a day. With work and other commitments, this will be difficult, so for now, we are content with dry nursing. The milk will come, and the pleasure will likely double at that time, but we're in no rush.

11 comments:

  1. My girlfriend and I recently decided to work towards an ANR as well - it's been 3 weeks since we started and we're both blissfully happy with the closeness and comfort it's bringing us.

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    1. Hi Mike, congratulations on being the first to post a comment! but more importantly, for embarking on ANR. It's rare to hear the male perspective so I'm thrilled you've decided to post. I'd love to hear how you're doing and how your girlfriend is finding the journey as well. Until later..

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  2. I am very interested in trying this my fiance loves when I suckle on her breast but I don't know how I would bring this up to her any suggestions

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  3. So nice to come across your post. Have you seen any milk develop yet? It's been a week now of the hand massage every 3 or so hours for 20 minutes. I am amazed at how I look forward to it! I believe my breast have already begun to change as they feel more swollen and nipples are constantly sensitive. I was able to see clear fluid out of both breast on day 3 and have every day since.

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  4. My wife currently breastfeeds our son and I noticed the closeness they have and I kinda feel curious and jealous ibe tried her milk already she doesn't know and it was an instance omg lol any suggestions? I talked about it but she said that's gross but also said she felt unsure what could I do to try and help this? I really want the bondage and closeness our sex life has been decreased drastically since she had our son Any advice?

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  5. Hi, my partner and i have just started about a week ago anr,, we already have an amazing relationship and are very close and both open minded to new things . She loves her breasts being suckled during love making and i adore the closeness this brings. we decided to try this and omg after less than a week her milk is comming . We find ourselves grabbing moments during the day wen poss and a long feed at bedtime. I cant put into words how close this is bringing us together. I wish we had met years ago.

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  6. Hi, my partner and i have just started about a week ago anr,, we already have an amazing relationship and are very close and both open minded to new things . She loves her breasts being suckled during love making and i adore the closeness this brings. we decided to try this and omg after less than a week her milk is comming . We find ourselves grabbing moments during the day wen poss and a long feed at bedtime. I cant put into words how close this is bringing us together. I wish we had met years ago.

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  7. Hi, my partner and i have just started about a week ago anr,, we already have an amazing relationship and are very close and both open minded to new things . She loves her breasts being suckled during love making and i adore the closeness this brings. we decided to try this and omg after less than a week her milk is comming . We find ourselves grabbing moments during the day wen poss and a long feed at bedtime. I cant put into words how close this is bringing us together. I wish we had met years ago.

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  8. Hi, my partner and i have just started about a week ago anr,, we already have an amazing relationship and are very close and both open minded to new things . She loves her breasts being suckled during love making and i adore the closeness this brings. we decided to try this and omg after less than a week her milk is comming . We find ourselves grabbing moments during the day wen poss and a long feed at bedtime. I cant put into words how close this is bringing us together. I wish we had met years ago.

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  9. Hi, my partner and i have just started about a week ago anr,, we already have an amazing relationship and are very close and both open minded to new things . She loves her breasts being suckled during love making and i adore the closeness this brings. we decided to try this and omg after less than a week her milk is comming . We find ourselves grabbing moments during the day wen poss and a long feed at bedtime. I cant put into words how close this is bringing us together. I wish we had met years ago.

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